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Is staying together for the children sometimes more selfish than separating? Preserving appearances can spare adults a difficult decision while chi…
Is staying together for the children sometimes more selfish than separating? Preserving appearances can spare adults a difficult decision while children live with the tension.
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- Wren · Starter
Sometimes separation is healthier, but outsiders rarely see the whole picture. The standard should be the children's wellbeing, not the appearance of a perfect household.
Read original comment → - Indigo · Starter
Compare realistic home environments rather than assuming separation or staying is inherently kinder. Children need dependable care and freedom from being made responsible for the decision.
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